Friday, October 23, 2009

1962 part 2

47 years ago today we arrived in Salt Lake City. We were so excited to be together again as a family. We vowed we would never be apart again. It was Fall, the colours everywhere were beautiful. The weather was warm and the sun was shining!!!! and there were sunflowers blooming all over the place. I was AMAZED at the mountains. I knew Utah was in the mountains, but we had also heard about the pioneers crossing the plains. Talk about a "reality check"
Alan rented an apartment for us in West Bountiful. (The owners had planted a tree in the front yard that wasn't very big, but it cast enough shade for Lesley to sit under with her doll and play.) Alan had a job, various friends had contributed to furnishing the apartment. Our landlady bought us a beautiful set of dishes, and loaned a "Jenny Lind" bed. Some friends moved into a new home and gave us their old fridge. Grandma filled the fridge and cupboards with groceries including a "half gallon of icecream" something that was unheard of for us. I discovered that milk was sold in GALLON bottles. That's a LOT of milk in one place.
I also learned about "dryers" I could take soaking wet clothes from the washer and put them in the dryer and they dried in 30 minutes. Isn't America wonderful.
Time proved that leaving my family was easy as compared to what I now faced. I was a mile from the grocery store. So? I was used to going to the shops everyday! and we couldn't drive. I would put the children in a stroller and walk. Or, I had a neighbour who was very patient and drove me often. Lettuce was iceberg when I was used to leaf, and BREAD!!!! it took a LONG time for me to adjust. I had a phone but no one to call. No TV but a radio and no idea who was funny. etc.etc. And NO FIREPLACE , where do you sit if you don't have a fire to sit by? Oh, the house was warm, but I missed a fire. And because of Alan's job he went to the Trade Tech in SL twice a week and we had MICE. HORRORS.
The Ward members were wonderful. They welcomed us with open arms. They held a "shower" for me and everyone was so kind. The first week here someone took me to the Elementary school to see the "Halloween Parade". Imagine my amazement when the Principal ran out dressed as Dracula. THAT WAS NOT how Headmasters (Principals) behave in Belfast. :o)
I thought I had challenges, including language. I used words that meant one thing to me and something entirely different to my new friends, they were much more polite than I was in a couple of situations. They had "no clue" what I was saying because of my brogue, and all these years later I still have people laugh.
This is a miscellany of incidents that actually took place over a few months. I had a LOT of learning moments, but I think the biggest was realizing that everyone was trying hard to make me feel welcome and now it was up to me.
I think I could sum it up by saying it was "the best of times it was the worst of times."
Now all these years later (although it hasn't taken all these years for me to recognise it)we can truly say this had been a land choice above all others for us.
I enjoy living in Zion. This Is the Place.

I remember I came to Utah with 3 children and 2 suitcases now look at us!!!!

9 comments:

Wood Fam said...

What an adventure for you and your family to come here! And we're SOOO glad you came!! that is a great picture.

Margie said...

Wow!! I just read both part 1 and part 2!! You had me laughing and crying!! What a powerful story this is and I am grateful to have your words in print for all of us to have, learn, love and grow from. I can't wait to share this with Tim when he gets home tonight.

You and dad have blessing many many lives because of your decision to bring your family to America. THANK YOU!!..and thanks for sharing too!!

P.S. You son Timothy LOVES having icecream in our freezer. And I enjoy leaf lettuce more than iceberg :)

Melissa said...

Pretty incredible story Granma! When you are a kid growing up you don't think of your Grandparents as people or human beings...when you are a kid you think that your grandparents exist because YOU exist and not the other way around. It is really neat to hear your stories through your blog. Hopefully we will hear many more so that we can come to relate as young girls and boys, young wives, husbands, mothers, fathers, and eventually granparents. Love you!

Ray and Donna Hamblin said...

What a neat story -- thanks for giving me a glimpse of life as you saw it many years ago. I am happy you are my friend.
Donna

Margie said...

Timothy said...I have been in Atlanta all week and flew home today (boy are my arms tired). Anyway, I had to make a connection through Denver. Little did I know that 47 years ago today I had made the same trek through (instead of over) the Rocky Mountains into Salt Lake City. On the trip from Atlanta to Denver I watched a movie on the plane called "Five Minutes of Heaven" starring Liam Neeson about the troubles in Belfast. The language was rather course but I felt compelled to watch it and while I watched once or twice I got teary eyed thinking of the wonderful sacrifice my parents made to bring us to this land. What a great blessing!! In Mosiah chapter two the people gathered to the temple to hear King Benjamin speak. In verse four it says that one of the reasons they gathered was to give thanks to God for bringing them out of Jerusalem. That has always struck me as amazing that nearly 500 years after Lehi left Jerusalem his descendants were still giving thanks for it. That is how I feel; it is 47 years after the fact and I am still so grateful. I love you Mom and Dad...and Lesley, and Archie, and Alan, and Lilian, and David.

Lesley said...

I love this story.
I sure feel grateful that Mom and Dad "listened". Our family has been greatly blessed.

Lesley said...

Ahhhh...I just read Tim's comment, that is a "tender moment" 47 years later. I love you too Tim....and Mom and Dad and Archie and Alan and Lilian and David and all of "yours".

Lilian said...

I love these stories!!! I love that my kids can hear and read these stories.

Marivic said...

Mom, I think we should try to find out how to publish your blog into a book one of these days, especially the family history posts. It would be such a great treasure for my kids and the other grandchildren to have.